Men and women are totally different in respect of how they perceive, and react to, situations and events.
However, more often than not, they fail to recognise this. Instead they criticise the opposite sex for their behaviour and, if in a relationship, try to modify their partner's behaviour.
This causes considerable friction, and stress, between the sexes.
My advice is simple, stop trying to change each other; accept that the opposite sex is different.
Life will become considerably less stressful.